Hey Steve: She’s Not Posting Me On Social Media || STEVE HARVEY


– So, before my current girlfriend, I was in a relationship and this particular girl
would get really upset because I didn’t post us
on social media a lot. Well, now the shoe’s on the other foot ’cause my current girlfriend’s
more private than I am. I’m very confident about her. I’m confident about us. I wanna show her off to the world and what do I do to show her it’s OK, it’s not a bad thing to
post us every now and then on social media? – Whoa, whoa, whoa, let me get this right. Y’all been together dating
and she ain’t posted you yet? – Right. – Well, you ready for the announcement? She ain’t sure! (clapping) See fellas, when the
shoe on the other foot, there’s another old saying
that goes along with that. Ain’t no fun when the rabbit got the gun. See, ain’t no fun. You out there huntin’
rabbits, so it’s fun. But if the rabbit got a gun, rabbit huntin’ ain’t that much damn fun. So, who is that you’re sitting next to? – This is my girlfriend, Hanna. – [Steve] Oh, that’s her. – Yeah.
(audience cheers) – Oh, well we can straighten this out now. – [Man] Yes, we can. – What’s your name, sister? – I’m Hanna. – [Steve] Hanna and how
long y’all been together? – About a year, a year and some change. – [Steve] About a year and some change. This is going good for you? – It’s going pretty good. – Oh, pretty good. How’s it going for you, sir? How would you describe this going? – [Man] I love her. – [Steve] She said it’s going pretty good. – Steve, what you want me to say? I love him? I love him but here’s the
thing about social media. – See, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. (laughing) I want you to remember something. My father, when I used to say but to him, he said once you say but, you just erased everything you said prior to that. So just, you love him. – Period. – Period. There’s something about social media. What is it?
– Right. Dave is for me and I feel like
people ask a lot of questions and I don’t like questions and so, if I post some questions
and then something happens, I’m like, I don’t wanna
have to deal with that. I don’t wanna deal with any aftermath and since Dave’s mine, I just like to have something for myself and he’s mine. – [Woman] That’s right. (clapping) – I like that. I like that, Dave. See Dave now, you wanna flex a little bit. – I do.
– Right. – So let me tell you what Dave’s going through.
– She’s mine. – [Steve] How old are you Dave, about 20– – 27. – [Steve] 27. – Yes sir. – Dave is a man. Dave has found what he’s been hunting for. So now, what Dave wanna do
is mark all his territory. So, the best way to
get the other predators to know that this is my territory is we must mark our
territory by professing. – Yeah. – He tryin’ to get everybody–
– So I gotta post it on my social media?
– Huh? – I gotta post it on my social media to– – Well, you don’t have to. I post a picture, people
respond negatively. The few times I do read
it, I just delete your ass ’cause you don’t really matter to me. I don’t even know how to block you. My kids ain’t taught me that yet. But you know, not over
here, ’cause I don’t post nothing negative. I only post positive stuff. – True. – People be on my social media page. They don’t even know me. They never met me. He’s so arrogant. I’m arrogant? He walk out there like he’s somebody. OK, well how you want me to walk out here? (laughing) We’ll be right back! (cheering)
(jazzy music)

100 Comments

  1. L.B.E. Vanguard said:

    It makes perfect sense why Steve's show was taken off. Steve put the onus on women for their life choices. He's a REAL MAN and wasn't afraid to challenge women on national TV. I'm sure all the man-hating feminists hated that and wanted him gone. Plus his message of women being held accountable doesn't coincide with today's narrative that women are infallible and that they're always victims of men. You were a much needed presence on television, Steve. He pulled back off her and switched it up at the end though. You chumped out that time.

    November 28, 2019
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  2. Tony McCloud said:

    She looked at him like ok we talkin talkin now huh😭

    November 28, 2019
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  3. Tiffany Best said:

    Key Word: "Girlfriend"….You're not a husband or fiancee.

    November 28, 2019
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  4. Tiffany Best said:

    He might be a narcissist. He wants 'fiancée husband' privileges without earning it. He's already getting the milk for free, free sex & free wife duties for a year, now he wants her to treat him like a full blown husband in front of the world. He could dump her tomorrow & she'll look like a fool to the entire world, and he knows that. Make her your wife or have a seat

    November 28, 2019
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  5. A B said:

    Damn homie hit the jack pot with his lady, she’s bad!

    November 29, 2019
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  6. A B said:

    It’s ok for a woman not to post you on social media, but if a man dont post her, all hell breaks loose and it’s not ok or you’re looking “single”

    November 29, 2019
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  7. brave said:

    She for everyone bro bro. Sorry to say so

    November 29, 2019
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  8. Darksolar7 said:

    She def one of the few cute black girls around 🤭 haha

    November 30, 2019
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  9. Xianne027 said:

    I agree with Hanna 100%! Why does every detail about the development of a relationship have to be 'posted'?
    That's why I'm not on Facebook. It's nobody's business what's going on in my personal life.
    I wonder about Steve's response, because he's from my generation – the pre-social media generation – he should understand Hanna's need for privacy in the first year of their relationship.

    December 1, 2019
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  10. Xianne027 said:

    Steve, you disappointed me on this one. Why can't you respect that some of us folks out there just don't need to be validated by social media? 👎

    December 1, 2019
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  11. Cari said:

    Personally, I don’t like social media. I deleted Facebook and I feel very grateful I did this. Social media doesn’t means I value what I value. Is better if those people whom I have contact with, they should call me in my phone not in social media.

    December 2, 2019
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  12. Marlon Ennis said:

    This social media validation is killing society a bunch of strangers weighing in on your life.

    December 2, 2019
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  13. Frank Agbaka said:

    Plain and simple

    December 5, 2019
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  14. Terry Burns said:

    Sorry….. women in general post EVERYTHING….. for her to not include him in her pics…… she is clearly keeping her options open and not showing she is 'taken' or off the market to other men.

    December 6, 2019
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  15. Music Sweet said:

    Wait what?! So what’s the solution, you forgot to tell us, uncle Steve.

    December 8, 2019
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  16. Nijat Erkin said:

    Lol this guy can do way better, drop that jont get a new one man 😂

    December 8, 2019
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  17. ShreddyMan said:

    Ooouuu That Girl Cheating😂

    December 9, 2019
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  18. Хорхе Гарсия said:

    The question to be asked is "does she posts herself ALONE on social media?" Because that´s the equivalent of taking off your ring in that platform

    December 12, 2019
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  19. cold worm said:

    She's unbelievably beautiful

    December 15, 2019
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  20. FilMAD Camp said:

    If he wants to post her then let him post her. He wasn't posting the women before her so what's the big deal.

    December 16, 2019
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  21. jinfinite waves said:

    She loves hypergamy and attention plus she has alot of male orbitors

    December 17, 2019
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  22. Jamba Shingu said:

    Screw social media

    December 18, 2019
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  23. Xtreme DarkJoy said:

    Golddiger

    December 20, 2019
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  24. Htotha Hizzie said:

    People need to remember there was LIFE BEFORE SOCIAL MEDIA…you dont need it to SURVIVE……next!

    December 21, 2019
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  25. Skylar Morris said:

    That’s the problem with this generation. That dang social media! Worried about the wrong thing. She ain’t posting me 🙄. Y’all relationship is not everyone else’s business. The healthiest relationships are those that are NOT on social media. Just enjoy the time y’all have together. Get married, have kids, buy a house, invest…. you have a lot to keep you occupied than to be worried about social media.

    December 24, 2019
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  26. Taylor Pierre said:

    He is acting like the women n she is acting like a man

    The roles in this relationship has switched

    And she will leave him for that. That’s the cold hard truth

    December 25, 2019
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  27. JDWhit _ said:

    She's NOT into him…..Period!

    December 26, 2019
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  28. Delze Cooper said:

    She too good for him

    December 27, 2019
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  29. Willie Beaman said:

    Men are becoming more blue pill everyday. I could care less if a woman doesn't post me on social media.

    December 27, 2019
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  30. June the Goon said:

    He’s the girlfriend in the relationship.

    December 31, 2019
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  31. ymarrero23 said:

    I’m 37 now and I will never ever post another man on my Facebook page if we are not engaged to be married period # for what it’s not like they stay with you long enough anyways. So, if I am not getting married I don’t care how much my boyfriend protest I will never acknowledge him to the world nope not doing that again. Boyfriend means nothing! husband is God ordained and permanent even if you divorce before the eyes of God and Heaven he will always always be your husband and you his wife.

    December 31, 2019
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  32. Luke Wilmer said:

    Social media is evil. Why would you measure a relationship based on it?

    December 31, 2019
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  33. Rae said:

    I don’t blame her for not posting him right away… don’t want people in her biz

    January 1, 2020
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  34. Eugene Hofmann said:

    Not everything needs to be on social media. Smh people think social media is everything and it's life.

    January 2, 2020
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  35. ineedhoez said:

    Translation: I love you but… you are not the caliber of man that I'm used to being with and I don't want my friends to judge because your money ain't long enough for me.

    You can love someone AND not want to marry them😂😂😂

    January 3, 2020
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  36. Tracy G said:

    If a man dont post you but posts other things consistently..he doesnt want the world to know he is taken and wants to appear single. If they domt really post much anyway then they are just being private…women are smart not to post unless you are engaged or married. Keep your man to yourself and if it dont work out, no ones in your business

    January 3, 2020
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  37. Warda Khan said:

    She knowsthinks she can do a lot better. Simple

    January 3, 2020
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  38. Gloria LinFamily said:

    Hmmm, I think it matters what the person thinks. If he wants to be posted she's not posting him because shes worried about if something happens meaning shes not secure in the relationship

    January 3, 2020
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  39. One to One said:

    Girl I understand if u don’t do social media, I am married and I don’t either, but my husband does and he post pictures of us all the times. I have pictures of us everywhere I go and on my desk at work so everyone sees. If she was hiding her relationship she won’t be on this show with her man. Girl continue doing your man and let others do social media👍

    January 4, 2020
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  40. Courtney Bryant said:

    Good looking couple

    January 5, 2020
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  41. aikenp said:

    A woman who won't post a picture of her man on social media is a woman who is trying to keep her options open . Period.

    January 6, 2020
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  42. Mark Lance said:

    She's the definition of a beautiful blk girl.

    January 6, 2020
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  43. Bossman kb Awesome said:

    She’s useless she basically counting on the downfall of her ship

    January 6, 2020
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  44. Rama Hosseini said:

    i never posted any girl i dated on social media. my ex hide me from social media too. it was part of agreement. she said she doesn't want her friend know about us. the truth was she didn't want her guys friend find out about us so she can still keep them around and play them and act like she was single. the agreement was people shouldn't know that we are together.

    January 6, 2020
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  45. Ratchet Beatz By Shawty Crunk said:

    She's not posting about her relationship because she's worried what social media will say. Maybe it means more to her what social media thinks opposed to how it makes her man feel.

    January 7, 2020
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  46. Galeng Ness said:

    She's a player that's why

    January 7, 2020
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  47. Kat M said:

    "ain't no fun when the rabbit got the gun" I'll remember that

    January 8, 2020
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  48. Vernard A Stokes said:

    I don’t like social media and relationships but this girlfriend situation is sus.

    January 8, 2020
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  49. joseph robinson said:

    Social media have destroyed plenty of relationships so maybe it's best they don't post each other

    January 9, 2020
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  50. Ladenna Young said:

    You don't need validation from people on social media. As a matter of fact it is better not to show a picture of your boo. Most people are jealous, and will try to break you up. Smh!

    January 11, 2020
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  51. Ladenna Young said:

    They are nice looking couple.

    January 11, 2020
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  52. Ladenna Young said:

    Yes people will do that. Talk about you, and not know who you are at all.

    January 11, 2020
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  53. Nicole Estella TV said:

    Wait how did it end up for the couple???? What was the conclusion?

    January 11, 2020
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  54. Ashley Shanea said:

    Sounds like insecurity

    January 12, 2020
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  55. Sanusi Fasilat said:

    Great Steve…there shouldn't be any trespass 😃, a man must defend it territory as it is been done in the Lion kingdom.

    January 14, 2020
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  56. INTIMID8EDGODZ Gta5 said:

    Nah shes cheatin

    January 14, 2020
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  57. Yogender Sharma said:

    Damn.😂😂 she aint sure

    January 16, 2020
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  58. kurdish girl said:

    Such a beautiful couple

    January 17, 2020
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  59. sweiland75 said:

    Ever since social media became the norm, people have forgotten about privacy.

    January 20, 2020
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  60. Barry P said:

    no Steve I dont post my wife on media because my life IS PRIVATE

    January 21, 2020
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  61. Trey Ivey said:

    I don't even got a Facebook so you won't get no posting anyways

    January 22, 2020
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  62. Danielle Patrice said:

    💯💯girl say that !

    January 23, 2020
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  63. Anass ElMimouni said:

    He gave no answer

    January 24, 2020
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  64. Alonso Combe said:

    She def broke up w him after the show

    January 24, 2020
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  65. Becky Vickers said:

    Don't post. It's childish. If he has to have that then he's insecure. Social media is not that important. Just telling the world your business.

    January 26, 2020
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  66. Maricalo87 said:

    Will what if they put status single? . That's what I hate about.

    January 28, 2020
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  67. Tonya Vallejo said:

    Just because a guy posts you on social media doesn’t mean that he’s all about you. My ex posted pics of us, pics of me, wrote tear-jerking, seemingly heartfelt posts about how much he loved me and the whoooooole time he was on some meet me app chatting up other women and then meeting them while I was busting my ass working 16 hr shifts. My current relationship is not posted all over social media. We are listed as “in a relationship” but that’s the extent of it. We both work ridiculous hours and we have 4 children. But the time we do spend together is just all the more special. We don’t need fairytale posts on social media to define what we have. I know it’s real. He knows it’s real. And that is all that matters.

    January 29, 2020
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  68. King TMTHY said:

    I think I understand where that guy's coming from…the girl probably post her other male friends but she doesn't post HIM

    January 30, 2020
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  69. Thefinessekid246 said:

    He got a problem wid it caws he know why he didnt post his ex 😂

    February 1, 2020
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  70. monique alloo said:

    Social media makes the relationship worse😕

    February 2, 2020
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  71. Luca Brasi said:

    He the side dish😂😂😂

    February 4, 2020
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  72. MUSCLE MAYHEM TV RAZA KHAN said:

    HE SHOULD BE LUCKY BCUZ SHOWING OFF WILL JINX YOUR LOVE LIFE

    February 5, 2020
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  73. eunice phulusa said:

    Steve sounds like Eddy Murphy sometimes

    February 6, 2020
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  74. super nerd said:

    wake up BETA MALE!

    February 8, 2020
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  75. Greyah Marie said:

    I dont believe in posting either and all my exes have been upset and insecure about it … #growup we know what it is

    February 9, 2020
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  76. Grace Terblanche said:

    Lmao it's not that deep Stevey

    February 9, 2020
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  77. dezay000 said:

    I'm 30 n this show is definitely relevant to my generation lol I liked this,show and the advice it has given

    February 10, 2020
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  78. Abz F’d yo bitch said:

    She ain’t post him just incase, another guy with more money wants to get with her 💯

    February 11, 2020
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  79. Christie G said:

    Omg she’s gorgeous

    February 12, 2020
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  80. Jajaja Forever said:

    I’m so late to this but it has nothing to do with not being sure. Steve’s insecurities showed in this video as well. Social media has programmed people to believe a relationship is validated with a post vs what is being shared intimately between lovers in private. It’s sad. Everything is for show now.

    February 12, 2020
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  81. mojonk said:

    She’s not yours, it’s just your turn.

    February 13, 2020
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  82. GD 02 said:

    Dave is not a man.
    Don't be like Dave.
    Concentrate on banging her properly and let her post what she wants.

    February 13, 2020
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  83. Faith Watkins said:

    Since when does a man care if you have him on social media? Maybe it's for the best. The less people know your business the better

    February 13, 2020
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  84. Leoni Days said:

    She doesn’t love you like that.

    February 14, 2020
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  85. David Hayden said:

    STEVE HARVEY LINE OF CLOTHING. PLEASE START A CUSTOM TAILORED ONLINE TAILOR SHOP. GET CUSTOMERS MEASUREMENTS, LET THEM CHOOSE FABRIC, WITHIN REASON, BUT LET'S DRESS ALL AMERICAN MEN WITH FINE LOOKING THREADS AT A GREAT PRICE, HAVING BEEN SEWN IN VIETNAM ETC. NO US OVERHEAD, MAIL ORDER CUSTOM TAILORING. AND LET'S EXPLAIN HOW BAD THESE YOUNG GIRLS LOOK IN THEIR RIPPED UP JEANS. NOWHERE ELSE WOULD ANYONE DRESS FOR FAILURE LIKE THIS. BUM CAMO.

    February 14, 2020
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  86. moneymitchamp said:

    He want to post her to probably piss off his ex

    February 14, 2020
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  87. moneymitchamp said:

    Ladies be careful with guys who just want you to be a trophy. Narcissist.

    February 14, 2020
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  88. Greydoves said:

    Posting pictures is fine. It’s when you post to many status about the relationship and how you’re doing. Nobody needs to know

    February 15, 2020
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  89. Kris Johnson said:

    Because she’s entertaining other men…a woman who’s truly in love and lives on social media posts her man…she’s entertaining other men bro

    February 15, 2020
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  90. Master Of The Craft said:

    No gf of mines would be with me and not post me

    February 15, 2020
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  91. Julian Caoibes said:

    she pretty…

    February 16, 2020
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  92. Luis Arevalo Jr. said:

    She’s not that into him. I don’t care what women say, when a woman truly loves her man she will WANT to show him off. Same goes for a man.

    Y’all been dating a year and not even one post? Lmao she’s not feeling it bro. Move on.

    February 16, 2020
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  93. Maxwell Lynch said:

    Man this new generation is a bunch of punks. You won the girl, you have her and you crying about her not “posting” on her social media? 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

    February 17, 2020
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  94. Casey Turner said:

    Naw it’s just nobody business

    February 17, 2020
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  95. No Longer In Use said:

    She don’t want people to know you wit her

    February 18, 2020
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  96. lkjp07 said:

    He is insecure as he may think she is too good for him and too good looking. He must be afraid of other guys and the fact to be posted will help him his self confidence. In fact, he wants to mark his territory. Sometimes you taste your own medicine. Before it was his former girlfriend and now he knows how it feels to be in her shoes.

    February 18, 2020
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  97. Jose Paolo Liwag said:

    Real facts…

    Social media is setting standards for to run your relationship…

    If there is an event like anniversary/birthday/Christmas…
    You should be able to compose a beautiful message for your partner, so everyone can like your post… in return, you will feel good with all the likes and comments…
    But behind that post, no one can really tell what’s going on in that relationship…

    Social media has advantages and disadvantages

    February 18, 2020
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  98. Carbon Instinct said:

    She won him over too easy. Woman are fickle. She wants a man that she has to win over. Her answers were just too lukewarm and the fact that it bothers him already shows his insecurity.

    February 19, 2020
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  99. Life Of Mxsti said:

    good answer from steve

    February 19, 2020
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  100. Tawana Calamari said:

    if they break up she has to go deleting everyone of those pics, nah don't post him i've been married 5 years , together for 6…never posted my husband on social media not one day

    February 19, 2020
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